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November 20, 2011
Student Media Ambassador Chase S. talks about Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR)
To me, TDOR means a lot of things. First and foremost, it puts the spotlight on a community that is often neglected. As a person who identifies as gender non-conforming/genderqueer, I find that oftentimes transgender and gender non conforming people are marginalized by the media and ocasionally even the LGB community. It also serves as a tribute to all those who were victimized simply because of their identities. TDOR is a solemn day, for me, but also an important one, because it serves as a reminder that the fight for equality is far from over.
November 18, 2011
The 13th annual Transgender Day of Remembrance is tomorrow, November 20, and is a day to memorialize those whose lives were lost due to anti-transgender fear, bigotry and hatred. Around the world communities plan vigils to remember those who have died in the previous year. As TDOR approaches, two of our Student Media Ambassadors reflect about how to make schools safe for students right now so that all students are safe from violence and bullying, regardless of gender identity/expression or sexual orientation.
Chase S. identifies as gender nonconforming and shares,
Supportive teachers have had an huge impact on helping me to feel safe in school. I frequently hear teachers speak out against homophobic language, and many school faculty/staff are starting to actively avoid the genderism that can negatively affect transgender/gender non-conforming students. Many teachers have openly supported the work of my GSA and have expressed positive interest in GLSEN and the work that we do. The affirming and supportive atmosphere created by my teachers has really helped me in feeling safe to express myself and my identity at school.
Loan T. also identifies as gender nonconforming and writes,
When I co-founded my school’s first gay-straight alliance with a close friend of mine, I felt a tremendous amount of relief weeks before we even had our first meeting. I had finally found a space that would take me as I am, regardless of who I am. A huge part of my social transition and taking control of my gender expression has been marked by the style of my hair. Though my hair in the past has elicited hurtful and harmful remarks from strangers and peers, never once have my GSA advisors and teacher allies discourage me or condone the intolerance of others. I know that a lot of that has been made possible by the countless efforts of my fellow GSA members and adult allies to circulate LGBT educational resources around every department in our school: raising awareness and calling for action one classroom at a time. Starting my sophomore year, our GSA began circulating two copies of GLSEN’s Safe Space Kit around the school; since then, more teachers have offered their alliance to our club, more students have attended our meetings, and our administration has become more willing to discuss the unique experiences that LGBT students face in school. While there are still the occasional rough patches for me, being able to witness the changes in my school and in my school’s dialogue around bullying, I feel much safer and much freer to express myself just knowing that issue of anti-LGBT bullying is being taken seriously.
November 18, 2011
GLSEN Student Media Ambassador Loan T. shares why Transgender Day of Remembrance is important.
Transgender Day of Remembrance is really all about remembering to never forget the history and presence of trans* people in our world. And with that, Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) stands as an even larger motivator to embrace the identities we ourselves have and the identities of others. It’s a day for action, for mobilization, for story-telling, and for revitalization. But most importantly, TDOR is an opportunity to celebrate the diverse lives of trans* people everywhere. It’s crucial to recognize that trans* people have made great, beautiful strides to transform and challenge society… and what’s even more awesome and admirable is that we keep doing so every single day. We continue to come out, to speak out, to shout out loud that we have hurt and we have lost but that will never prevent us from shouting even louder that we are here and we will continue to exist in the most influential ways—that’s what matters most to me: having a community that I can stand with no matter what.
October 25, 2011
MTV Music Group's O Music Awards are set to invade Los Angeles on Halloween night to celebrate digital music counter culture. On Saturday, October 29th a livestream kicks off as O Music Awards attempts to set a world record live from the Roxy Theater on Sunset Strip.
October 05, 2011
>The Ventura County District Attorney's Office has decided to retry Brandon McInerney for the murder of 15-year-old Lawrence "Larry" King at E.O. Green Junior High in 2008. McInterney was 14 when he killed his classmate because of Larry's sexual orientation and gender expression.
The first trial against McInerney ended in a mistrial when the jury couldn't agree on whether to convict Brandon of manslaughter, second-degree murder or first-degree murder. The defense does not dispute that Brandon pulled the trigger.
The Los Angeles Times quoted GLSEN Executive Director this morning in a story written before the retrial decision was announced.
GLSEN had hoped to the two sides could agree on a plea deal to avoid another painful trial.
July 29, 2011
Changing the Game: The GLSEN Sports Project is an education and advocacy initiative focused on addressing LGBT issues in K-12 school-based athletic and physical education programs. The GLSEN Sport Project’s mission is to assist K-12 schools in creating and maintaining an athletic and physical education climate that is based on the core principles of respect, safety and equal access for all students, teachers and coaches regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression and integrating these efforts into overall school plans to ensure a safe, respectful school climate and culture. With your help, we are making team sports and locker rooms safer places for students.
We are extremely grateful to Changing the Game Advisory Group members Hudson Taylor and Wade Davis for sharing their personal stories at the event. We would also like to thank Cliff Richner for opening his beautiful home to all of us, and to all of the GLSEN volunteer leadership who lent their insight and time to pulling off this amazing event.
July 21, 2011
>CALLING ALL GENDER NONCONFORMING YOUTH AND THEIR FAMILIES!
Our friends at Gender Spectrum have an upcoming event we think you should know about. This year's Gender Spectrum Family Conference for transgender and gender nonconforming children and teens, will be held in Berkeley, California, from July 29th - August 1st. The conference brings together youth, families and professionals for a weekend of support, learning and celebration of transgender and gender creative young people. There will be more than 30 workshops for adults, along with a variety of programming for different youth age groups, ranging from "Kids Camp" for the younger children, to the "Tween" program for kids ages 9 - 12 and the teen programs. To find out more information about the conference or to register, visit these sites: The 2011 Family Conference or The 2011 Professionals' Workshop.
July 20, 2011
>This week marks the kick-off of the 23rd Annual NYC LGBT Film Festival, NewFest. GLSEN is proud to announce its involvement in this year's festival by co-sponsoring the screening of the film "I'm From Driftwood." This documentary shows New York's Nathan Manske as he crosses the country in search of what the 21st century queer experience truly is. He hears the diverse stories of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and ally individuals along his journey.
"I'm From Driftwood" will be screened on Friday, July 22nd, at 3 PM at the Cinema Village Theater. To purchase tickets for this film, or any of the other films being screened at NewFest, visit their website at http://newfest.org/wordpress/. A limited number of FREE youth (ages 25 and under) tickets for this screening are also available. They can be reserved in advance at the theater, or at the LGBT Community Center Box Office, by July 21st.
July 07, 2011
>On Wednesday, June 29th, five GLSEN student advocates attended the second annual LGBT Pride Reception at the White House. These Jump-Start Coordinators, coming from various areas of the country, got the chance to share their stories of anti-LGBT bullying with top government officials, including the President Obama and Vice President Biden. While there, students had the chance to advocate for the Safe Schools Improvement Act and the Student Non-Discrimination Act, two bills that are currently in Congress. If passed, these acts would be a substantial step in ensuring safe schools for all students.
Dontaee Williamson, a student leader from Rochester, New York, spoke with President Obama and reflected on the momentous experience.
"To be invited was amazing. Meeting Obama was a fairy tale because not many people get that opportunity. When I met him I said 'thank you for supporting LGBT issues and safe schools for all' and how important it is for him to keep making good movements. He said 'That's my job. I'll be working on it more.’ For him to say that, it’s not something he’s brushing off. In his speech, the president said that every school needs to be a safe place for teachers and students. He said that if students don’t feel safe at school, how can we expect them to feel safe anywhere?"
Jump-Start Coordinator Ashley N. Davalos is from southern California and has been volunteering and leading workshops regarding different LGBT issues for her chapter of GLSEN in San Diego for the past four years.
"The reception was wonderful, and full of positive energy. While speaking with people [at the reception], many seemed delighted that GLSEN had a few students attend. It was very inspiring to hear what people had done and what their new projects were."
Layne Gianakos has been involved in LGBT activism with GLSEN Connecticut since his freshman year at high school and shared this about his White House visit.
"Going to the White House, in and of itself, was breathtaking but going as an invited guest was unthinkable. I was quite literally in awe the entire time between seeing Abraham Lincoln's actual glassware and the famous historical paintings of our founding fathers that I have seen in every text book since fifth grade. President Obama delivered a wonderful speech. It was personable, down to earth, and didn't include much of the frivolous fluff so popular among politicians.
He even told the crowd at one point that he knows some in the room have been frustrated with him and assures us that he is not going to pretend that he has the right or authority to tell the LGBTQ community to be patient, just as no one could tell to Black Americans half a century ago. His statements were rooted in fact with regard to the progress that has been made and it was clear that he was making the effort to include LGBTQ Americans in a way never done before by the presidency.
After his speech, I was able to shake the President's hand and had an opportunity to talk to both Vice-President Joe Biden, and the second lady Dr. Jill Biden. I am so grateful to have been included in the political process in a way that most Americans will never know. Attending this reception was, legitimately, a once in a lifetime experience. "
Layne's mother, Maura Gianakos, attended the Pride event and is hopeful of the future for his son.
"As a parent of a transgender teen, the President's sincere optimism and genuine support touched me deeply and makes me hopeful for continued progress and change - a time when students, gay or transgender are treated equally, when they no longer are bullied or harassed for who they are, an America that has mutual respect for all."
As president of her high school's Gay-Straight-Transgender Alliance and a member of the Southern Maine Chapter of GLSEN, Kaleigh Colson was moved to be an invited guest to the Pride reception.
"My experience was magical. Listening to Obama's speech brought tears of hope and joy to my eyes, and left me feeling even more motivated to make a difference and to bring an end to society's anti-LGBT behavior than ever before. Overall, it was just a beautiful experience and I feel blessed to have been a part of it."
GLSEN would like to once again thank the Obama administration for inviting GLSEN constituents to share their personal experiences with anti-LGBT bias and bullying, and including GLSEN in the discussion of bullying prevention and other safe schools initiatives.
June 28, 2011
>This past Sunday, GLSEN returned to New York City Pride marching in the official 2011 NYC Pride Parade. Our group of 125 GLSEN staff, chapter members, volunteers, students, educators, and supporters met up at 11 a.m., and we couldn't have asked for better weather. It was amazing to see so many supporters out for GLSEN.
Our contingent, armed with a bounty of GLSEN posters representing GLSEN's work and the 31 GLSEN chapters around the country, postcards, stickers and bracelets for the pride attendees, headed out onto "pride alley," otherwise known as 5th Avenue, with The Village as our destination. Thanks to Wells Fargo, we were positioned close to the beginning of the parade and walked behind the famous Wells Fargo stagecoach, where GLSEN Executive Director Eliza Byard, her daughter, Wilson Cruz, and Joel Burns experienced the march.
GLSEN’s Community Initiatives Director, Martha Langmuir, recounts an incidence of unforeseeable generosity as witnessed by members of our GLSEN Connecticut Chapter.
A large group of over 20 youth and adults came down from Connecticut to march with us in Pride and before heading back to the train they stopped for lunch. While they were sorting out who owed what on the bill, the waitress came and grabbed the bill and ran off with it. Turned out that a couple in the restaurant loves the work GLSEN does and were thrilled to see that this large a group of students had come in as part of GLSEN’s contingent.
"To me, this is emblematic of the reach of GLSEN’s work on a daily basis – our impact is far greater than we are able to see on most days.”
Just two days before the march the New York State Senate passed the marriage equality bill and in turn, the crowd was exceptionally enthusiastic as signs thanking Governor Cuomo for his signing of the bill littered the parade route. It was thrilling to march with this group, united in promoting safe schools for all students, as thousands of people on the sidelines passionately cheered us on in support.